Miscarriages happen in about 20% of all pregnancies. Miscarriage is the spontaneous loss of an unborn’s life before 20 weeks. The medical term for miscarriage is “Spontaneous Abortion.” This wording can confuse many.
A miscarriage is not an induced abortion. Induced abortion is the ending of the life of the unborn by artificial means.
Many women who miscarry their child require surgery (D&C) to remove remains. Please know that this procedure after a miscarriage is not considered an abortion either, as the child is no longer living. Don’t panic, no matter what your medical paperwork says. Your miscarriage was not an abortion. We too wish the 2 terms were different.
miscarriage symptoms
You may experience heavy vaginal bleeding, cramping in the lower abdomen, lower back, or pelvis; a gush of discharge, or loss of pregnancy symptoms.
Sometimes no symptoms are present, and a healthcare provider discovers the miscarriage on an ultrasound. If you feel you are experiencing a miscarriage, call your OB doctor or visit the closest ER for confirmation and further instructions.
“I’m struggling.”
We are so sorry for your loss. Many who experience a miscarriage deal with varying degrees of physical and emotional pain. Follow your doctor’s guidance and tell someone if you’re struggling. We’ll listen. Below are some online resources for those who have miscarried. Your child mattered, and grief is natural. Don’t give up hope!
Caleb Ministries (for post-abortive and post-miscarriage)
www.mend.org
hopemommies.org
naomiscircle.org
sufficientgraceministries.com